Unique & Luxury Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
Your guide to the best Valentine’s Day gift ideas for her.
Whether it’s your first Valentine’s Day together or you’re celebrating your 40th wedding anniversary, finding the best Valentine’s Day gifts for her can be stressful. From simply seeking a small token to show her affection to grand gestures that will sweep her off her feet, there’s no better way to express your love than with a thoughtful and unique Valentine’s Day Gift for her.
The ideal gift will either be thoughtful, something she’s been coveting for a while, or a splurge she wouldn’t normally indulge in herself. Trust us, we know. Our editors may have sent a hint or two to our special someone.
Whether you’re opting for a romantic gift or a luxury gift she just can’t resist, read on for the best Valentine’s Day gifts and ideas that will make her swoon.
This gift guide features editor-approved luxury Valentine’s Day gifts that have been hand-selected based on our vetting criteria to ensure all of our selections meet our high standards. Uncommon and Curated is an independent publication that is supported by its readers. When shopping this guide, you help support our publication as we may receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
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Monthly Flower Arranging Subscription
Forget the standard bouquet this Valentine’s Day, spark her creativity with this monthly flower subscription where she can practice the art of floral arranging. Each Bouquet Box arrives with the precise number of fresh-from-the-farm flowers and all the tools she’ll need to arrange the bouquet like a true professional. A how-to guide and video tutorials come with each shipment so she can create the perfect arrangement.
Maison Ivory Piped Silk Pajama Set
With the resolution to get more sleep, we’ve been coveting these luxurious silk pajamas from Silk Maison. She’ll lounge in luxury in these ivory silk PJs designed with black piped silk trim using the highest grade 19 momme silk.
Candle Warmer Lamp
Luzdiosa
Made popular on Tiktok and Instagram, we can’t help but love this candle warmer lamp that’s currently all the rage. Not only do we love it for its charming design, but warming your candles vs. lighting them makes the candle last longer while still immersing your space in the scent. Of course, you can pair this gift with her favorite candle or one of our favorite candles from Brooklyn Candle Studio.
The Vancouver Handbag
We absolutely love everything designed by Demellier London. A sustainable brand that gives back, you can gift her this luxe and practical gift while doing good. We’ve been eyeing the Vancouver, one of Demellier London’s most popular styles. With a vintage yet contemporary look, we’re certain she’ll fall in love. This luxe handbag is available in 15 iconic colors.
Move Uno Ring
This sleek ring from Messika’s Move Uno Collection makes a great gift for anyone with a contemporary style. This luxurious 18K rose gold ring showcases a sparkling round brilliant-cut diamond held in an elegant, petite oval cage. This exquisite piece showcases the signature contemporary yet everlasting style of Messika’s designs.
Glow Kit
Give her the gift of self-care this Valentine’s day with the Dr. Barbara Sturm Glow Kit, a facial kit brimming with premium quality beauty products she’ll love.
Cocoon Cashmere Cardigan
Jenni Kayne
This lightweight cardigan crafted from 100% Mongolian cashmere is truly as luxurious as it gets. Cozy and slouchy, it’s ideal for layering with its neutral oatmeal hue that’s perfect for polishing off any outfit.
Be My Valentine Experience
Perfect for the adventurous couple, this “Be My Valentine” experience gift from Tinggly allows your special someone to choose from over 8,000 handpicked experiences in more than 100 countries worldwide. Whether it’s romantic cruises, delicious dinners, or exhilarating kayaking adventures, there’s something to suit every taste and create lasting memories. We love that the gift-giving process is hassle-free. You simply purchase a Be My Valentine Experience Collection, the recipient receives a prepaid voucher with no expiration date, and they can book their adventure at their convenience on the Tinggly website.
Madagascar Silk Bandana
A silk scarf is a little luxury that elevates any wardrobe. The perfect accessory for sipping an Aperol Spritz on the Amalfi coast or simply adding a dose of glam to her everyday life, this silk bandana scarf is versatile for all occasions. With every scarf from Lost Pattern featuring a hand-drawn pattern by an independent artist, this is truly a unique gift for your special woman.
Birthstone Newport Necklace
We love a necklace meant for layering, especially one with personal meaning. The Newport Birthstone Necklace by Gorjana is an understated Valentine’s Day gift that combines elegance with personal significance. Crafted in 14k solid gold, this dainty necklace is designed for layering and features genuine gemstones that correspond to each month’s birthstone, making it an on-trend yet meaningful present. Win, win.
Romantic Gifts
When it comes to romantic gifts for women, forget the rose petals and cheesy gestures, it’s all about thoughtful touches and unique experiences. If you’re looking for the perfect gift she’ll love, these gifts are sure to dazzle. Whether gifting her a year’s worth of adventurous dates or gifting her a diamond ring that spells “love” in morse code, these thoughtful and unique gifts are just the right touch of romance.
Morse Code Love Ring
There are a million ways to say I love you, but this very well might be the most creative one. The Love Morse Code Ring by Melanie Casey features a string of five baguette diamonds and seven round white diamonds that are arranged as a series of “dashes” and “dots” that spell “L-O-V-E” in Morse code. With this ring’s stunning elegance, this may be the most romantic way to always remind her that she’s loved.
Private Chef for Two
For an intimate experience that goes beyond a fancy restaurant, book a private dining experience with Cozy Meal. Find top local chefs and the perfect menu to create an unforgettable, intimate meal right at home. From grocery shopping to cleaning up, your chef will handle everything A to Z. You just bring a romantic ambiance.
The Adventure Challenge Couple’s Edition
The Adventure Challenge Couple’s Edition is a good gift for anyone who loves to try new things. The Adventure Challenge Couple’s Edition features a journal with a year’s worth of “scratch-off” date ideas and an i-type instant camera to document the magic. This thoughtful gift will bring you closer together and let you relive the fun with the keepsake journal. If you already have an instant camera, you can buy the Adventure Challenge Journal on its own for $50.
It’s About Us Photo Book
For a truly lovely gift that will become a keepsake, make her a custom photo album of your adventures throughout the years. Reminiscent of a coffee table book, this sleek photo album is covered in textiles and fits two 10×15 photographs on each page with enough space left to write a sweet message.
Assorted Box of 16 Mini Merveilleux
If she has a sweet tooth, whisk her tastebuds away to France with pastries from world-renowned pastry chef Frédéric Vaucamps at Aux Merveilleux de Fred. With locations worldwide, the pastry shop specializes in past traditional specialties from Flanders, one of which is The Merveilleux (the must-have pastry made with meringue accompanied by chocolate and other flavors).
All pastries are made in each shop using traditional methods allowing customers to get front-row seats to the symphony of craftsmanship as each decadent pastry is made with delicate precision. Find a location near you.
Silk Sleep Dress
Silk Maison
If you’re in the mood for romance, there’s nothing sexier than silk. You can’t go wrong with this silk mini slip dress from Silk Maison that’s as sumptuous as it is sexy.
BV39 III Bud Vase
Let her know she’s the “one” with the Lobmeyr’s BV39 III bud vase, a cherished bestseller since the 1950s, embodies the essence of elegance with its tender silhouette and delicate muslin glass. First introduced in 1917 by the renowned Austrian sculptor Michael Powolny, this vase is dedicated to showcasing a single stem, symbolizing the unique beauty and significance of “the one.” Powolny’s design philosophy, that sometimes less is indeed more, makes this vase not just a piece of decor but a statement of singular love and appreciation.
Cozy Gifts
If a cozy day at home is her idea of bliss, then consider gifting her something she can unwind with when it’s time to destress. If she’s constantly updating the home with pillows, candles, blankets, and unique accents, these are the perfect gifts.
Wylie Everlasting Candle Set
This unique Valentine’s Day gift is a luxurious steel candle that never melts so she can enjoy the endless ambiance with these clean burning candles. She can re-light these candles over a thousand times and enjoy the cozy glow time and time again.
Velvet Weighted Blanket
Weighted blankets have been medically proven to aid in a deeper sleep. This sumptuous, eco-velvet weighted blanket is luxuriously soft and snuggly, making it a great gift for cozying up in style.
Love Potion
With notes of jasmine blossoms, calming lavender, and bright mandarin, this candle is like gifting her a freshly picked bouquet of wildflowers. Light it for a relaxing date night at home with wine for two.
Self-Care Gifts
Self Care should be a priority in 2023. Let her pamper herself with these relaxing and rejuvenating gifts. Whether she is diligent about taking care of her skin, loves indulging in a much-need massage, or she’s simply seeking more mindful moments in her life, these gifts will deliver.
Relaxing Massage or Spa Treatment
Let her choose the spa of her dreams with a SpaFinder gift certificate. With highly-rated, luxury spas to choose from in every city, she’ll find the perfect treatment. Make it for two for a couples spa day, or a Galentine’s Day treat for her and a friend.
A Restful Pause Gift Box
The perfect antidote for stress, this unique gift basket includes Herbivore Botanicals Bamboo Charcoal Cleansing Bar, Morihata Binchotan Charcoal facial puff, Paddywax Urban Concrete Soy Wax Candle, a cute vial of black-tipped matches, and a meditative journal featuring quotes and excerpts from Thích Nhat Hạnh, a Vietnamese Buddhist monk. This is the perfect present for anyone who needs to relax and recharge.
Infrared Sauna Blanket
Bring the spa to her with this infrared sauna blanket that elevates the body’s thermal energy, enhances deep relaxation, promotes glowing skin, and improves circulation. Want to go really big? Read our guide on buying an at-home sauna.
Moment of Calm Starter Pack
This well-being pod diffuser works at the touch of a button and will transform her home into a blissful sanctuary. She’ll enjoy the relaxing scent of wild rose and neroli – two popular essential oils that help lift mood and promote feelings of inner peace.
GLOfacial Hydro-Infusion Poor Cleansing Kit
Elevate her beauty routine with this facial kit that brings the spa experience home, focusing on moisturizing and enhancing skin with Hyaluronic Acid and Hydrogen therapy. The kit features the GLOfacial Hydro-Infusion Pore Cleanser Tool, a 20ml GLOfacial Concentrate for use with the tool, and both small and large treatment tips plus a clarifying cap for different skin areas and needs. As a bonus, this kit also includes a full-size 6oz. Balance, a 50ml GLOfacial Firming Collagen Concentrate, and a 3ml ZenBubble Gel Cream sample, offering a complete solution for firm, balanced, and hydrated skin. It’s like gifting her an instant spa in the comfort of her home.
Organic Silk Sleep Mask
Give her the gift of better sleep this Valentine’s Day with this 100% organic mulberry silk sleep mask, featuring organic silk filler and durable lockaway stitching. Designed to fit any face shape and sleep position, it offers 20% more coverage than standard masks for ultimate light blockage, made from the highest quality 22 momme, 6A grade silk. Unlike silk blends or chemically treated options, this GOTS-certified mask stands out for its superior luster, smoothness, and gentle feel on the skin, making it a perfect, thoughtful gift for someone special.
Luxury Gifts
If you’re going for a grand gesture this Valentine’s Day and are looking to splurge, these classic presents are investment pieces she will enjoy for years to come. Whether a luxury handbag, classic watch or timeless jewelry, these gifts are sure to impress.
Baccarat Rouge 540 Eau de Parfum
Gift her poetic alchemy with the infamous Baccarat Rouge 540, which of course, is made in France. With notes of amber, cedarwood, and Jasmine this elegant scent is like a floral and woody breeze. This iconic fragrance is one of the best gifts you can buy, trust us.
Cashmere Scarf
This Valentine’s Day, envelop your loved one in the embrace of luxury with a scarf crafted from the finest 100% pure cashmere yarn. Available in a palette of elegant colors such as Tan Cashmere, Mid-Grey, Navy, Black, and Cardinal Red, there’s a color for every taste. We also love that you can add a more personal touch with Aspinal of London’s personalized embroidery service so you can create a one-of-a-kind luxury gift that is uniquely hers.
Tondo Hobo in Wine Suede
Established in 2020 by Amy Zurek, Savette celebrates traditional leather craft in a new and modern form, the definition of quiet luxury. Each bag is made by hand just outside Florence with amazing attention to detail. We love the classic silhouette of the Tondo Hobo with its rounded, organic curves.
Lined in supple suede, the Tondo Hobo combines the ease of a hobo shoulder bag with the sophistication of Savette’s signature metal hardware. While we love the unique hue of wine, this bag is also available in cream, brown, and black.
Small Panel Julius Earrings
These sculptural earrings from the minimalist brand Khaite are inspired by the dynamism of the Spring/Summer collection, and channel the futurist artifacts of the Machine Age through the lens of Elsa Peretti’s design ethos. Crafted with precision in Italy, each pair is made from gleaming 18-karat-gold-plated brass. These earrings are the perfect gift for that special someone who appreciates a blend of modern design with timeless beauty.
Deco Mid Watch, 29mm
We love the sleek simplicity of this modern watch from the always-classic and iconic watch brand Michele. Perfect for everyday wear, this is the best gift for a daily reminder of your love.
Market Weekender Tote
If she loves luxury she’ll love METIER. The perfect companion for all her weekend trysts, the METIER Market Weekender Bag in soft, buffalo leather features a twisted base, wide-set handles, and a slouchy silhouette. This bag is a 2-in-1 marvel with a zippered pouch inside that can be unsnapped and worn as a crossbody bag.
Triomphe Small Flap Wallet
Crafted in Italy, this classic Triumph wallet from Celine is designed for both functionality and style, featuring one folded coin pocket with a snap button, five credit card slots, one note pocket, and one flat pocket, all encased in premium calfskin with a calfskin lining.
Mallion Belt
This classic belt from SAINT LAURENT is made in Italy from supple black leather. With a slim profile embellished with polished gold-tone chains at the front, this will become her new favorite belt perfect for a casual pair of jeans, cinching a blazer, or accenting a dress.
Tank Watch
Ensure it’s a Valentine’s Day she’ll never forget with this exquisite timepiece features a quartz movement within a steel case, adorned with a beaded crown set with a synthetic cabochon-shaped spinel. The watch showcases a silvered dial, blued-steel sword-shaped hands, and a steel bracelet, encapsulating elegance and sophistication.
How We Chose These Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
Quality: When curating this collection, we evaluated the quality of the products prioritizing luxury brands and premium materials.
Style: We considered the style of each item evaluating factors like uniqueness, timelessness, and on-trend details.
Intentionality: We curated gifts that would bring small joy, help your loved one destress, and allow your gift recipient to indulge in what they love.
Brand Values: We selected gifts from brands with strong values such as women-owned brands, sustainable brands, and brands that embrace premium quality, just to name a few.
Vetting Criteria: We have four core principles for vetting the brands that we feature. Our brand ethos is our guiding principle to ensure that the products we feature align with our values and yours. Our publication covers small businesses, independent brands, and luxury goods.
Reviews: We only picked gifts with rave reviews from customers. This ensures that you are shopping for products that are not only loved by our curators but are also loved by the rest of the internet.