Unique & Luxury Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
Your guide to the best Valentine’s Day gift ideas for her.
Whether it’s your first Valentine’s Day together or you’re celebrating your 40th wedding anniversary, finding the best Valentine’s Day gifts for her can be stressful.
From simply seeking a small token to show her affection to grand gestures that will sweep her off her feet, there’s no better way to express your love than with a thoughtful and unique Valentine’s Day Gift for her.
The ideal gift will either be thoughtful, something she’s been coveting for a while, or a splurge she wouldn’t normally indulge in herself. Trust us, we know. Our editors may have sent a hint or two to our special someone.
Whether you’re opting for a romantic gift or a luxury gift she just can’t resist, read on for the best Valentine’s Day gifts and ideas that will make her swoon.
This gift guide features editor-approved luxury Valentine’s Day gifts that have been hand-selected based on our vetting criteria to ensure all of our selections meet our high standards. Uncommon and Curated is an independent publication that is supported by its readers. When shopping this guide, you help support our publication as we may receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
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Monthly Flower Arranging Subscription
Forget the standard bouquet this Valentine’s Day, spark her creativity with this monthly flower subscription where she can practice the art of floral arranging. Each Bouquet Box arrives with the precise number of fresh-from-the-farm flowers and all the tools she’ll need to arrange the bouquet like a true professional. A how-to guide and video tutorials come with each shipment so she can create the perfect arrangement.
Maison Ivory Piped Silk Pajama Set
With the resolution to get more sleep, we’ve been coveting these luxurious silk pajamas from Silk Maison. She’ll lounge in luxury in these ivory silk PJs designed with black piped silk trim using the highest grade 19 momme silk.
Candle Warmer Lamp
Luzdiosa
Made popular on Tiktok and Instagram, we can’t help but love this candle warmer lamp that’s currently all the rage. Not only do we love it for its charming design, but warming your candles vs. lighting them makes the candle last longer while still immersing your space in the scent. Of course, you can pair this gift with her favorite candle or one of our favorite candles from Brooklyn Candle Studio.
The Vancouver Handbag
We absolutely love everything designed by Demellier London. A sustainable brand that gives back, you can gift her this luxe and practical gift while doing good. We’ve been eyeing the Vancouver, one of Demellier London’s most popular styles. With a vintage yet contemporary look, we’re certain she’ll fall in love. This luxe handbag is available in 15 iconic colors.
Move Uno Ring
This sleek ring from Messika’s Move Uno Collection makes a great gift for anyone with a contemporary style. This luxurious 18K rose gold ring showcases a sparkling round brilliant-cut diamond held in an elegant, petite oval cage. This exquisite piece showcases the signature contemporary yet everlasting style of Messika’s designs.
Glow Kit
Give her the gift of self-care this Valentine’s day with the Dr. Barbara Sturm Glow Kit, a facial kit brimming with premium quality beauty products she’ll love.
Cocoon Cashmere Cardigan
Jenni Kayne
This lightweight cardigan crafted from 100% Mongolian cashmere is truly as luxurious as it gets. Cozy and slouchy, it’s ideal for layering with its neutral oatmeal hue that’s perfect for polishing off any outfit.
Once-in-a-Lifetime Experience
For that special someone who values experiences over things, Tinggly allows your gift recipient to choose from over 300 experiences for two available in countries around the world. Gourmet food, luxurious pampering, and thrilling adventures await. If a weekend getaway is more your thing, you can gift two nights for two people with a vast selection of hotels across 100 countries. The world is her oyster.
Madagascar Silk Bandana
A silk scarf is a little luxury that elevates any wardrobe. The perfect accessory for sipping an Aperol Spritz on the Amalfi coast or simply adding a dose of glam to her everyday life, this silk bandana scarf is versatile for all occasions. With every scarf from Lost Pattern featuring a hand-drawn pattern by an independent artist, this is truly a unique gift for your special woman.
Birthstone Star Ridge Pendant Necklace
Personalized gifts always dazzle. Handcrafted with recycled materials, this birthstone necklace is the perfect personalized gift without being over the top. We love that it’s sentimental with custom engraving but sleek and stylish enough to layer with other necklaces for a trendy look.
Romantic Gifts
When it comes to romantic gifts for women, forget the rose petals and cheesy gestures, it’s all about thoughtful touches and unique experiences. If you’re looking for the perfect gift she’ll love, these gifts are sure to dazzle. Whether gifting her a year’s worth of adventurous dates or gifting her a diamond ring that spells “love” in morse code, these thoughtful and unique gifts are just the right touch of romance.
Morse Code Love Ring
There are a million ways to say I love you, but this very well might be the most creative one. The Love Morse Code Ring by Melanie Casey features a string of five baguette diamonds and seven round white diamonds that are arranged as a series of “dashes” and “dots” that spell “L-O-V-E” in Morse code. With this ring’s stunning elegance, this may be the most romantic way to always remind her that she’s loved.
Private Chef for Two
For an intimate experience that goes beyond a fancy restaurant, book a private dining experience with Cozy Meal. Find top local chefs and the perfect menu to create an unforgettable, intimate meal right at home. From grocery shopping to cleaning up, your chef will handle everything a-z. You just bring a romantic ambiance.
The Adventure Challenge Couple’s Edition
The Adventure Challenge Couple’s Edition is a good gift for anyone who loves to try new things. The Adventure Challenge Couple’s Edition features a journal with a year’s worth of “scratch-off” date ideas and an i-type instant camera to document the magic. This thoughtful gift will bring you closer together and let you relive the fun with the keepsake journal. If you already have an instant camera, you can buy the Adventure Challenge Journal on its own for $50.
It’s About Us Photo Book
For a truly lovely gift that will become a keepsake, make her a custom photo album of your adventures throughout the years. Reminiscent of a coffee table book, this sleek photo album is covered in textiles and fits two 10×15 photographs on each page with enough space left to write a sweet message.
Assorted Box of 16 Mini Merveilleux
If she has a sweet tooth, whisk her tastebuds away to France with pastries from world-renowned pastry chef Frédéric Vaucamps at Aux Merveilleux de Fred. With locations worldwide, the pastry shop specializes in past traditional specialties from Flanders, one of which is The Merveilleux (the must-have pastry made with meringue accompanied by chocolate and other flavors).
All pastries are made in each shop using traditional methods allowing customers to get front-row seats to the symphony of craftsmanship as each decadent pastry is made with delicate precision. Find a location near you.
Silk Sleep Dress
Silk Maison
If you’re in the mood for romance, there’s nothing sexier than silk. You can’t go wrong with this silk mini slip dress from Silk Maison that’s as sumptuous as it is sexy.
Ophelia lace and tulle-trimmed velvet bodysuit
You can never go wrong with classic black lingerie.
Spice things up with this beautiful bodysuit with black lace and velvet. This lingerie is sexy enough for between the sheets but is sophisticated enough to be paired with a blazer and jeans.
Cozy Gifts
If a cozy day at home is her idea of bliss, then consider gifting her something she can unwind with when it’s time to destress. If she’s constantly updating the home with pillows, candles, blankets, and unique accents, these are the perfect gifts.
Wylie Everlasting Candle Set
This unique Valentine’s Day gift is a luxurious steel candle that never melts so she can enjoy the endless ambiance with these clean burning candles. She can re-light these candles over a thousand times and enjoy the cozy glow time and time again.
Velvet Weighted Blanket
Weighted blankets have been medically proven to aid in a deeper sleep. This sumptuous, eco-velvet weighted blanket is luxuriously soft and snuggly, making it a great gift for cozying up in style.
Love Potion
With notes of jasmine blossoms, calming lavender, and bright mandarin, this candle is like gifting her a freshly picked bouquet of wildflowers. Light it for a relaxing date night at home with wine for two.
Self-Care Gifts
Self Care should be a priority in 2023. Let her pamper herself with these relaxing and rejuvenating gifts. Whether she is diligent about taking care of her skin, loves indulging in a much-need massage, or she’s simply seeking more mindful moments in her life, these gifts will deliver.
Relaxing Massage or Spa Treatment
Let her choose the spa of her dreams with a SpaFinder gift certificate. With highly-rated, luxury spas to choose from in every city, she’ll find the perfect treatment. Make it for two for a couples spa day, or a Galentine’s Day treat for her and a friend.
A Restful Pause Gift Box
The perfect antidote for stress, this unique gift basket includes Herbivore Botanicals Bamboo Charcoal Cleansing Bar, Herbivore Detox Dead Sea Bath, an Italian-inspired candle from Ethics Supply Co., and a meditative journal featuring quotes and excerpts from Thích Nhat Hạnh, a Vietnamese Buddhist monk. This is the perfect present for anyone who needs to relax and recharge.
Infrared Sauna Blanket
Bring the spa to her with this infrared sauna blanket that elevates the body’s thermal energy, enhances deep relaxation, promotes glowing skin, and improves circulation. Want to go really big? Read our guide on buying an at-home sauna.
Moment of Calm Starter Pack
This well-being pod diffuser works at the touch of a button and will transform her home into a blissful sanctuary. She’ll enjoy the relaxing scent of wild rose and neroli – two popular essential oils that help lift mood and promote feelings of inner peace.
Spa Trio
Take her beauty routine to the next level with this hot and cold aromatherapy facial steamer, LED Light Silicone Face Brush which helps clear up blemishes, and a microdermabrasion system that gets rid of all those pesky dead skin cells for brighter, glowing skin. It’s like gifting her an instant spa in the comfort of her home.
Crystal-Powered Sleep Mask
Give her the gift of better sleep this Valentine’s Day. This soft, silky, machine-washable eye mask is filled with natural crystals, including amethyst, clear quartz, and rose quartz, that radiate soothing energy for the best sleep ever.
Luxury Gifts
If you’re going for a grand gesture this Valentine’s Day and are looking to splurge, these classic presents are investment pieces she will enjoy for years to come. Whether a luxury handbag, classic watch or timeless jewelry, these gifts are sure to impress.
Tondo Hobo in Forest Suede
Established in 2020 by Amy Zurek, Savette celebrates traditional leather craft in a new and modern form. Each bag is made by hand just outside Florence with amazing attention to detail. We love the classic silhouette of the Tondo Hobo with its rounded, organic curves.
Lined in supple suede, the Tondo Hobo combines the ease of a hobo shoulder bag with the sophistication of Savette’s signature metal hardware. While we love the unique hue of forest green, this bag is also available in cream, tan, and black.
The Selly Trench
The classic leather trench is making a comeback in full force, and she can never go wrong with this staple in her wardrobe. This luxe trench in buttery calfskin is lined in silky cupro and the double-breasted silhouette is framed by a notched collar and refined by button-fastening epaulets. She’ll feel like she just stepped out of Fashion Week.
Deco Mid Watch, 29mm
We love the sleek simplicity of this modern watch from the always-classic and iconic watch brand Michele. Perfect for everyday wear, this is the best gift for a daily reminder of your love.
Market Weekender Tote
If she loves luxury she’ll love METIER. The perfect companion for all her weekend trysts, the METIER Market Weekender Bag in soft, buffalo leather features a twisted base, wide-set handles, and a slouchy silhouette. This bag is a 2-in-1 marvel with a zippered pouch inside that can be unsnapped and worn as a crossbody bag.
Teal Peacock Sapphire Deco Emerald Cut Diamond Ring
This one-of-a-kind ring is the right gift for one-of-a-kind beauty. Designed to highlight the unique rare materials used and their inherent beauty. Because of the incredible rarity of this setting style, there’s only one.
Trinity Knee-High Boot
From the founder of Jimmy Choo who set out to create a new independent brand, these knee-high boots in soft Nappa leather are the perfect investment piece for her wardrobe.
Mallion Belt
This classic belt from SAINT LAURENT is made in Italy from supple black leather. With a slim profile embellished with polished gold-tone chains at the front, this will become her new favorite belt perfect for a casual pair of jeans, cinching a blazer, or accenting a dress.
Polar Flare Puffer Jacket
If she loves to hit the slopes or simply run errands in warmth, this ski jacket will be a trendy yet timeless addition to her wardrobe.
Baccarat Rouge 540 Eau de Parfum
Gift her poetic alchemy with the infamous Baccarat Rouge 540, which of course, is made in France. With notes of amber, cedarwood, and Jasmine this elegant scent is like a floral and woody breeze. This iconic fragrance is one of the best gifts you can buy, trust us.
How We Chose These Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
Quality: When curating this collection, we evaluated the quality of the products prioritizing luxury brands and premium materials.
Style: We considered the style of each item evaluating factors like uniqueness, timelessness, and on-trend details.
Intentionality: We curated gifts that would bring small joy, help your loved one destress, and allow your gift recipient to indulge in what they love.
Brand Values: We selected gifts from brands with strong values such as women-owned brands, sustainable brands, and brands that embrace premium quality, just to name a few.
Vetting Criteria: We have four core principles for vetting the brands that we feature. Our brand ethos is our guiding principle to ensure that the products we feature align with our values and yours. Our publication covers small businesses, independent brands, and luxury goods.
Reviews: We only picked gifts with rave reviews from customers. This ensures that you are shopping for products that are not only loved by our curators but are also loved by the rest of the internet.
